{"id":8095,"date":"2026-02-18T22:18:49","date_gmt":"2026-02-18T19:18:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/?p=8095"},"modified":"2026-02-18T23:06:20","modified_gmt":"2026-02-18T20:06:20","slug":"bekar-anne-hikayelerinin-kurucusu-sezen-surmeli-kendi-sesinle-ilerle-yalniz-degilsin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/2026\/02\/18\/bekar-anne-hikayelerinin-kurucusu-sezen-surmeli-kendi-sesinle-ilerle-yalniz-degilsin\/","title":{"rendered":"Bekar Anne Hikayeleri\u2019nin Kurucusu Sezen S\u00fcrmeli \u201cKendi Sesinle \u0130lerle, Yaln\u0131z De\u011filsin\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Baz\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmler g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcyle de\u011fil, sessiz bir fark edi\u015fle ba\u015flar.&nbsp;<strong>Sezen S\u00fcrmeli\u2019nin hik\u00e2yesi de b\u00f6yle bir e\u015fikte \u015fekilleniyor.<\/strong>&nbsp;D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ok katmanl\u0131 bir kariyer yolculu\u011fu var. M\u00fclteci kamplar\u0131nda saha deneyimi, kurumsal d\u00fcnyada y\u00f6neticilik, annelik ve dijital \u00fcretim. Ancak bu anlat\u0131n\u0131n merkezinde ba\u015far\u0131dan \u00e7ok daha ki\u015fisel bir mesele yer al\u0131yor.&nbsp;<strong>Kendi sesini koruyarak var olabilmek.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kaybolmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, yaln\u0131zca kendilerini geri plana almay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi bir d\u00fczende susmakla g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7izgi giderek inceliyor.&nbsp;<strong>S\u00fcrmeli\u2019nin deneyimi bu \u00e7izginin tam ortas\u0131nda duruyor.<\/strong>&nbsp;Beklentilerle kimlik aras\u0131ndaki gerilimi, \u00fcretimle sorumluluk aras\u0131ndaki dengeyi ve&nbsp;<strong>\u201cben\u201d diyebilmenin gereklili\u011fini<\/strong>&nbsp;g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Amerika\u2019da ge\u00e7en y\u00fcksek lisans y\u0131llar\u0131ndan, Kilis ve Antep\u2019teki m\u00fclteci kamplar\u0131na, \u0130stanbul\u2019daki kurumsal sorumluluklardan bug\u00fcn Tarsus\u2019ta kurdu\u011fu daha ki\u015fisel \u00fcretim alan\u0131na uzanan bu yolculuk tek ba\u015f\u0131na bir kariyer hik\u00e2yesi de\u011fil. Sosyal medyada y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc&nbsp;<strong>\u201cBekar Anne Hikayeleri\u201d<\/strong>&nbsp;platformu da bu \u00fcretimin bir par\u00e7as\u0131. S\u00fcrmeli burada yaln\u0131zca kendi deneyimini payla\u015fm\u0131yor,&nbsp;<strong>farkl\u0131 kad\u0131nlar\u0131n anlat\u0131 alan\u0131 bulmas\u0131na da katk\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yor.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu r\u00f6portaj bir ba\u015far\u0131 anlat\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok&nbsp;<strong>kimlik, sorumluluk ve g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u00fck aras\u0131nda kurulan dengeyi<\/strong>&nbsp;ele al\u0131yor. Ki\u015fisel oldu\u011fu kadar toplumsal bir meseleye odaklan\u0131yor.&nbsp;<strong>Bir kad\u0131n kendi sesini koruyarak var olabilir mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.18-576x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8099\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.18-576x1024.jpeg 576w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.18-169x300.jpeg 169w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.18-768x1365.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.18-864x1536.jpeg 864w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.18-1152x2048.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.18-scaled.jpeg 1440w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kimsin Sezen?<\/strong>&nbsp;<strong>CV\u2019de yazmayan, LinkedIn\u2019de g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen, seni sen yapan \u015fey ne?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kimim ben sorusu benim de her g\u00fcn yeniden kendime sordu\u011fum bir soru. Bunun tek bir yan\u0131t\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, s\u00fcreklili\u011fi de yok. Kendimi her g\u00fcn arayan, yeniden in\u015fa eden, g\u00f6rmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan biriyim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u0130stanbul \u00dcniversitesi Siyasal mezunusun, Amerika\u2019da y\u00fcksek lisans yapt\u0131n. Hayat seni \u201ckurumsal ba\u015far\u0131\u201d rotas\u0131ndan al\u0131p m\u00fclteci kamplar\u0131na, sonra da bamba\u015fka \u00fcretim alanlar\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131.<\/strong>&nbsp;<strong>Bu k\u0131r\u0131lma nerede oldu?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00fclteci yard\u0131m kurulu\u015flar\u0131nda da kurumsald\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131m asl\u0131nda. Ama o kadar farkl\u0131 sekt\u00f6rler ve bamba\u015fka ortamlarda \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ki, bana \u00e7ok geni\u015f bir vizyon katt\u0131. Farkl\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve yap\u0131lar g\u00f6rmek bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 da geni\u015fletti. K\u0131r\u0131lma s\u00fcrekli yeniden ve yeniden olmaya devam ediyor\u2026 hayat beni nereye g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek daha neler m\u00fcmk\u00fcn heyecanla bekliyorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.17-576x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8100\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.17-576x1024.jpeg 576w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.17-169x300.jpeg 169w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.17-768x1365.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.17-864x1536.jpeg 864w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.17-1152x2048.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.17-scaled.jpeg 1440w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kilis ve Antep\u2019te m\u00fclteci kamplar\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak insan\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya bak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015ftiriyor?<br>Oradan \u00e7\u0131kan Sezen ile oraya girmeden \u00f6nceki Sezen ayn\u0131 ki\u015fi mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsana olan inanc\u0131m \u00e7ok de\u011fi\u015fti. \u0130nsana yard\u0131m etmek, hayatlara dokunmak, fark yaratmak \u00e7ok tatmin ediciydi. Sonra bir an geldi b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sorgulama ald\u0131 beni. Kimin berbat etti\u011fi bu d\u00fcnyay\u0131 kimin yard\u0131mlar\u0131yla g\u00fczelle\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Kimin yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ma\u011fduriyeti kimin sayesinde ortadan kald\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz? Ve o sorgulama hi\u00e7 bitmedi\u2026 bitmez de\u2026 s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc s\u00fcrece de ayn\u0131 ki\u015fi kalmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Y\u0131llarca i\u015f geli\u015ftirme ve finans alan\u0131nda y\u00f6neticilik yapt\u0131n. Sonra \u00e7eviri, \u00f6zel ders, dijital i\u00e7erik\u2026<br>\u201cDa\u011f\u0131n\u0131k\u201d denilen ama asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok merkezli bir yol bu. Kendini hi\u00e7 savunmak zorunda hissettin mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kariyer ve i\u015f tercihlerim klasik bir HR vizyonunda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z, daha do\u011frusu istikrars\u0131z olarak de\u011ferlendirilebilir. Ancak ben displinleraras\u0131 bir deneyim aktar\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 bilin\u00e7li tercih ediyor ve bunun beni beslemesiyle daha da ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 hale geliyorum.<br>Klasik HR b\u00fcy\u00fck yan\u0131l\u0131yor g\u00f6receksiniz \ud83d\ude42 \u201cda\u011f\u0131n\u0131k\u201d san\u0131lan \u015fey bir strateji, kurumsala kendi ellerimle haz\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m geni\u015fletilmi\u015f bir yetkinlik seti sat\u0131yorum kendimi pazarlarken. Vizyoner olmayan bir kurumun bunu anlayabilmesi zor, \u00f6zellikle yerelde, bana ciddi bir dezavantaj yarat\u0131yor. Ancak san\u0131r\u0131m art\u0131k \u00e7izgimi buldum. Departmanlar aras\u0131, ekipler aras\u0131 kurguda \u201ci\u015f geli\u015ftirme\u201d olarak ben devreye giriyorum. Ama tabi bilin bakal\u0131m yerelde ne yok? \u0130\u015f geli\u015ftirme departman\u0131\u2026 bu sebeple i\u015fsizim. Kendimi, ke\u015ffedilmeyi bekleyen \u00f6zel bir sanat \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc gibi demlemeye b\u0131rakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"936\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.22-936x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8101\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.22-936x1024.jpeg 936w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.22-274x300.jpeg 274w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.22-768x840.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.22-1405x1536.jpeg 1405w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.22-1873x2048.jpeg 1873w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 936px) 100vw, 936px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cS\u00fcrekli \u00fcretmek benim i\u00e7in bir motivasyon kayna\u011f\u0131\u201d diyorsun.<br>Hi\u00e7 durmak istemedin mi? Yoksa duramamak m\u0131 bu?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00dcretmeyi severim ama bunun patoloji temeli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan emin olana dek bir uzmana dan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Durunca su\u00e7lu hissetmiyorsan, zaman zaman durabiliyorsan, \u00fcretme temelli yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131kt\u0131r bu kimseye zarar\u0131 olmaz kan\u0131mca. Bu; sistemin bana dayatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 verimlilik, \u00fcretme bask\u0131lar\u0131ndan ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z bir hal. Sanat\u00e7\u0131lardan ilhamla biraz, \u00fcretmezsem ya\u015fayamam gibi geliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Bekar annesin. 8 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir o\u011flun var.<br>Annelik seni g\u00fc\u00e7lendirdi mi, daha m\u0131 k\u0131r\u0131lgan yapt\u0131? Yoksa ikisi ayn\u0131 anda m\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Annelik beni bamba\u015fka bir insan yapt\u0131. Olmaktan en keyif ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m halime d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fc. G\u00fc\u00e7lendirdi ama bir o kadar da zorlad\u0131. Herkes benim kadar zorlan\u0131yor mu bilmiyorum ama ben \u00e7ok zorland\u0131m ve hala da zorlan\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Toplum h\u00e2l\u00e2 \u201cbekar anne\u201d tan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 bir eksiklik gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcyor.<br>Sen bu etiketi ilk ne zaman sahiplenip d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fcn?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bekar annelik muhte\u015fem bir \u015fey. 4 y\u0131l \u00f6nce bo\u015fand\u0131m ve bence yeniden do\u011fdum da diyebiliriz. Toplum her nas\u0131l g\u00f6r\u00fcrse g\u00f6rs\u00fcn bekar anneli\u011fi, benim nas\u0131l g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm en \u00f6nemlisi \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26-2-576x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8106\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26-2-576x1024.jpeg 576w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26-2-169x300.jpeg 169w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26-2-768x1365.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26-2-864x1536.jpeg 864w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26-2-1152x2048.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26-2-scaled.jpeg 1440w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Instagram\u2019da \u201cBekar Anne Hikayeleri\u201d hesab\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131nda niyetin neydi?<br>\u201cBen yaln\u0131z de\u011filim\u201d demek mi, yoksa \u201cyaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 birlikte ta\u015f\u0131yal\u0131m\u201d demek mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hesab\u0131m\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, belli bir amac\u0131m yoktu. \u00dcretmek benim ya\u015fam bi\u00e7imim demi\u015ftim ya. Sosyal medyada da, okuduklar\u0131m ve ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131mla da beslendi\u011fim \u015feylerden bir \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 yaratmak istedim. Ciddi bir bo\u015fluk da vard\u0131. Hep yabanc\u0131 kaynaklar\u0131 takip etme, kendi k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcme ve bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131ma uyarlamak istedim. Yaln\u0131z de\u011filiz, biz var\u0131z demek istedim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kad\u0131nlara kendi seslerini bulmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in alan a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsun.<br>Sence kad\u0131nlar seslerini ger\u00e7ekten mi kaybediyor, yoksa bast\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor mu?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad\u0131nlar seslerini kaybediyorlar, potansiyellerini ve seslerini bast\u0131rmak zorunda kal\u0131yorlar. Kimi zaman sessiz de olsa hala bir yerlerden f\u0131slt\u0131lar\u0131 duyuluyor. Bunu g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lmak bana keyif veriyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Flan\u00f6z olmak istiyorsun. \u015eehirleri y\u00fcr\u00fcyerek, g\u00f6zlemleyerek, yazarak deneyimlemek\u2026<br>Bug\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda yava\u015flamak bir l\u00fcks m\u00fc, yoksa direni\u015f mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>H\u0131z \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Sistem bizden herg\u00fcn<br>h\u0131zl\u0131 t\u00fcket<br>h\u0131zl\u0131 \u00fcret<br>h\u0131zl\u0131 tepki ver<br>h\u0131zl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn<br>Beklentisi i\u00e7inde.<br>Flan\u00f6z ise \u015funu yapar:<br>yava\u015f bak<br>uzun g\u00f6r<br>anlam \u00e7\u0131kar<br>kaydet<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden mesele h\u0131z de\u011fil de dikkatin egemenli\u011fi gibi geliyor. Hayat bizden, zaman\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 fiyatland\u0131rmam\u0131z\u0131 istiyor. Zaman l\u00fcks\u2026 ve hayata istedi\u011fini vermemek bir direni\u015f gerektiriyor. Yani ikisi de asl\u0131nda .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.27-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8103\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.27-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.27-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.27-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.27.jpeg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Bucket list tutuyorsun, her tikte ruhunun hafifledi\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsun.<br>\u015eu an listende en \u00e7ok kalbini \u00e7arp\u0131tan madde hangisi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Listemdeki her madde benim bebe\u011fim\u2026 Se\u00e7mek \u00e7ok zor ayr\u0131ca genellikle yapana kadar s\u00f6ylemiyorum ama tek ba\u015f\u0131ma bilmedi\u011fim bir \u015fehirde bir ay ya\u015famak, ki seyahat etmek en b\u00fcy\u00fck tutkum. Bir kitab\u0131 bitirmek de\u011fil ama yay\u0131mlamak \ud83d\ude42<br>Japonya. Sessizlik inzivas\u0131. Bir ustaya \u00e7\u0131rakl\u0131k yapmak (hangi alan s\u00f6ylemem). Bu d\u00fcnyaya kendi tarz\u0131mla iz b\u0131rakmak<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Benim i\u00e7in bir \u015feyin bucket listime girmesinin \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fct\u00fc \u015fudur asl\u0131nda:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBunu yapt\u0131ktan sonra ayn\u0131 ki\u015fi olarak kalmayaca\u011f\u0131m.\u201d hissi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dijital d\u00fcnya, yapay zek\u00e2 ve teknoloji seni heyecanland\u0131r\u0131yor.<br>Peki korkutmuyor mu? \u0130nsan sesinin kaybolmas\u0131ndan endi\u015fe ediyor musun?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hi\u00e7 korkutmuyor. Teknolojiyi ele\u015ftirenleri ben \u015funa benzetiyorum; matbaa \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, insanlar i\u015fsiz kalacak korkusu olu\u015fmu\u015ftu, radyo \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ay kitaplar art\u0131k okunmayacak korkusu, tv \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca art\u0131k derin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnemeyece\u011fiz sanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131k,\u015fimdi ise internet\u2026 kayg\u0131 hep vard\u0131 ve olmaya devam edecek. Bu y\u00fczden bu bir \u00e7a\u011f sorunu de\u011fil bu k\u00fclt\u00fcr sorunu. Teknoloji insan\u0131 yok etmiyor ama daha g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131l\u0131yor. Her ne ise insan ger\u00e7ekte, onu g\u00f6steriyor. Yapay ise daha yapay yap\u0131yor, samimi ise daha sahici g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor. O y\u00fczden hi\u00e7 ama hi\u00e7 korkmuyorum aksine sesimi duyurabilece\u011fim ifade kanallar\u0131m artt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in heyecanla yakla\u015f\u0131yorum her geli\u015fmeye.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cKendi sesimi koruyarak \u00fcretmek ya\u015fam pusulam\u201d diyorsun.<br>Bu kadar g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7inde kendi sesini nas\u0131l ay\u0131rt ediyorsun?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hi\u00e7kimse be\u011fenmese, kimse do\u011fru bulmasa, kimse onaylamasa yine de yapar m\u0131yd\u0131m? diye soruyorum kendime. Yan\u0131t evet ise devam ediyorum. Hay\u0131r ise bu onaya neden ihtiya\u00e7 duydum, ger\u00e7ekten neyi istiyor neyi arzuluyorum diye an\u0131nda kendime d\u00f6n\u00fcp a\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 besliyorum ve sonra yeniden deniyorum.<br>Kendini tan\u0131makla yak\u0131ndan ilgili oldu\u011fu kadar bir kas bu asl\u0131nda. Yapt\u0131k\u00e7a geli\u015fen, ezberin d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131karan, i\u00e7 sesini tan\u0131mana yard\u0131mc\u0131 olan\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26-768x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8104\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26-225x300.jpeg 225w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.26.jpeg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>T\u00fcm bu hik\u00e2yeyi bir g\u00fcn kitapla\u015ft\u0131rmak istiyorsun.<br>O kitap bir \u201chesapla\u015fma\u201d m\u0131 olacak, bir \u201csar\u0131lma\u201d m\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hesapla\u015fma, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, sar\u0131lma, d\u00f6nemler, k\u0131r\u0131lmalar, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc anlar, tekrar eden motifler\u2026 benim hikayem ya da bizim hikayemiz\u2026 hen\u00fcz hayal a\u015famas\u0131nda bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemek i\u00e7in \u00e7ok erken. Hala b\u00f6ylesine aktif ya\u015f\u0131yorken yazmak \u00e7ok zor\u2026 20 y\u0131l sonra bunu yeniden konu\u015fal\u0131m \ud83d\ude42 (not alzheimer oldu yazamad\u0131 hahaha)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Bug\u00fcn bu r\u00f6portaj\u0131 okuyan bir kad\u0131n i\u00e7in tek bir c\u00fcmle kuracak olsan,<br>ne s\u00f6ylemek isterdin?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sesini k\u0131smadan kendin olarak ilerle, yaln\u0131z de\u011filsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"761\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.23-761x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.23-761x1024.jpeg 761w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.23-223x300.jpeg 223w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.23-768x1034.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.23-1141x1536.jpeg 1141w, https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/WhatsApp-Image-2026-02-06-at-13.27.23.jpeg 1170w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 761px) 100vw, 761px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Baz\u0131 hik\u00e2yeler y\u00fcksek sesle anlat\u0131lmaz ancak g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k bulur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc i\u00e7inde bir\u00e7ok kad\u0131n\u0131n kendinden bir par\u00e7a bulabilece\u011fi ortak bir deneyim ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sezen S\u00fcrmeli\u2019nin anlatt\u0131klar\u0131 yaln\u0131zca bir kariyer rotas\u0131n\u0131n, annelik deneyiminin ya da ki\u015fisel d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00f6zeti de\u011fil. Bu r\u00f6portaj, uzun s\u00fcre kendini geri planda tutmu\u015f bir kad\u0131n\u0131n&nbsp;<strong>kendi kimli\u011fini yeniden merkeze alma s\u00fcrecini<\/strong>&nbsp;ortaya koyuyor. Beklentilere, toplumsal rollere ve \u201cg\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnme\u201d bask\u0131s\u0131na ra\u011fmen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Belki de en dikkat \u00e7ekici nokta \u015fu. Kusursuzluk iddias\u0131 olmadan, s\u00fcrekli g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnme zorunlulu\u011funa s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmadan&nbsp;<strong>\u201cben buyum\u201d diyebilmek.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu yaln\u0131zca bireysel bir hik\u00e2ye de\u011fil. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kamusal ve ki\u015fisel alanda nas\u0131l konumland\u0131\u011f\u0131na dair daha geni\u015f bir soruyu g\u00fcndeme ta\u015f\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir kad\u0131n&nbsp;<strong>kendi sesini sahiplenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda<\/strong>, bu yaln\u0131zca ki\u015fisel bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm de\u011fil,&nbsp;<strong>kolektif bir cesaret alan\u0131<\/strong>&nbsp;da yarat\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"block-3be33bab-141c-4e0e-a7c1-811a1dc89b7f\">#\u0130\u015fbirli\u011fi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p id=\"block-f4928d38-d023-40c9-8783-d298b288b35d\"><strong>M\u00fczeyyen Beyza MERCAN<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Baz\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmler g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcyle de\u011fil, sessiz bir fark edi\u015fle ba\u015flar.&nbsp;Sezen S\u00fcrmeli\u2019nin hik\u00e2yesi de b\u00f6yle bir e\u015fikte \u015fekilleniyor.&nbsp;D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ok katmanl\u0131 bir kariyer yolculu\u011fu var. M\u00fclteci kamplar\u0131nda saha deneyimi, kurumsal d\u00fcnyada y\u00f6neticilik, annelik ve dijital \u00fcretim. Ancak bu anlat\u0131n\u0131n merkezinde ba\u015far\u0131dan \u00e7ok daha ki\u015fisel bir mesele yer al\u0131yor.&nbsp;Kendi sesini koruyarak var olabilmek. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kaybolmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, yaln\u0131zca [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":8097,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_ppma_block_editor_authors":""},"categories":[7,2,1,9,12],"tags":[],"ppma_author":[15],"class_list":["post-8095","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-egitim","category-guncel","category-kategorisiz","category-magazin","category-yazarlar"],"authors":[{"term_id":15,"user_id":3,"is_guest":0,"slug":"beyza","display_name":"M\u00fczeyyen Beyza Mercan","avatar_url":{"url":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/WhatsApp-Image-2024-09-18-at-09.18.16.jpeg","url2x":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/WhatsApp-Image-2024-09-18-at-09.18.16.jpeg"},"author_category":"","first_name":"M\u00fczeyyen Beyza","last_name":"Mercan","user_url":"http:\/\/@mbeyzamercan","job_title":"","description":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8095"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8095"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8095\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8125,"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8095\/revisions\/8125"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8097"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8095"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8095"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8095"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tarsusyenihaber.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=8095"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}